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Our Father who art in our Midheaven ❤️💔

Aries midheaven, Mars in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may have associated ‘love’ and ‘affection’ with discipline or a style of nurturing that was very playful and competitive so emotions were fought out instead of being consoled, sometimes the true child and unique talents, sensitivity and gifts goes unnoticed because the focus is on living an unmet parental aspiration

Taurus midheaven, Sun in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may have defined or contaminated the concept of self-worth, being valued, and being comfortable and happy in their own skin, their grandest longing is for a life of love and beauty, but they feel like they don’t deserve such things either

Gemini midheaven, Mercury in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may have exhibited egocentric and unstable qualities that made developing secure attachments quite difficult, as a result sometimes they don’t realise the impact their own erratic presence has on their loved one’s lives can be very unsettling and confusing, it’s possible that the child was the inadvertent teacher for an unready parent

Cancer midheaven, Mercury in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may be the ‘invisible man’ archetype so masculinity is role modelled around the dominant display of the feminine quality in its greatest expression of strength, resilience, protection, and power, there is a family wound that leaks into the whole world and they are saviours at the same time they need saving

Leo midheaven, Sun in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may have stolen or defined their light, and it can result in the end sense that they can only be loved by being somebody else or solely for what can be contributed, they must learn to define and understand the giving and receiving of love on their own and far later than they were meant to, often alongside the ordeals that this love and support was meant to get them by

Virgo midheaven, Mercury in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may have consciously or subconsciously ignored or discredited psychological or physical illness and displayed untreated symptoms that were quite distressing, it’s possible that their own health matters were left unrecognised or unresolved or there was a role reversal in some form that created a reliance on depended upon by others

Libra midheaven, Venus in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may seem to belong to everybody else, there may have been circumstances that conditioned the person to believe that they were not truly valued or wanted, and that their own needs were less important than others, the parents may have projected an idyllic image that other people become envious of without realising that it’s never so rosy behind closed doors

Scorpio midheaven, Pluto in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures can be the Prince of Darkness who is responsible for the unseen battles. in some cases the bloodline is contaminated by the secrets and traumas kept hidden for appearance sake and reputation, but the curses are carried on by forthcoming generations and the ‘good name’ that was once so important to conserve becomes a family name they will desperately to escape from

Sagittarius midheaven, Jupiter in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may have expressed copious dissatisfaction and discontent that left the child feeling very guilty and responsible for other people’s happiness, the person may have been taught to respect opinions they disagreed with, or be denigrated, mocked, or reduced for their views or questions

Capricorn midheaven, Saturn in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures can have quite a restrictive and defined role that may appear forced or underestimates the importance of their presence, detached when the person needs their love and support the most, like an emotional wall or a distance that makes it seem like they were born during different centuries

Aquarius midheaven, Uranus in the 10th
the presence or absence of the literal father or paternal figures profoundly influences their self-love and defines the limitations of their potential, it’s possible for this figure to be the inspiration behind their aspiration – either to emulate the positivity that was displayed or escape from the instability and re-write a new future with a different name

Pisces midheaven, Neptune in the 10th
the literal father or paternal figures may have been a very lost, confused, and hurt person who likely never intended to pass these wounds on – but they can do so by conditioning destructive and escapist coping mechanisms and a victim mentality as a defence against being hurt or betrayed again – no person or circumstances has the power to make them a victim because they already see themselves as one

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