1dietcokeinacan:

novitiate2017:

graphic on screen torture of a woman is not provocative not metaphorical not deep women have made art and film about pain and sacrifice without falling back on a gross-out contest its not entertaining to see that its not compelling its actually one of the most tired things present in film today

Straight male directors love depicting the brutalization of women because they know how profound female suffering is and want to capitalize on it but their innate lack of empathy means the only way they can think to access that pain is thru graphic depictions of feminine objectification and dehumanization. They enact the same kinds of gendered violence they practice in varying degrees every day and fantasize about in private and they call it thoughtful, they call it beautiful. And everyone repeats, “he is thoughtful; she is beautiful.” He doesn’t care to know her, just to indulge himself through her. Over and over again

I’ve been averting my gaze… this is new for me. the insecurity™ has evolved

twelvehousemoon:

  This Taurus New Moon is extremely unique due to Uranus moving into Taurus for the first time in 84 years on the same day. During a typical Taurus New Moon, we tend to focus on how we can create stability, plant seeds of self-improvement to harvest later in the lunar cycle, and seeking comfort and sensuality. But Uranus doesn’t care about this- the New Moon is going to be about preparing for change, expecting the unexpected, and getting ready for transformation.

  The New Moon is forming a fairly tight sextile to Uranus, allowing us to kiss Uranus in Aries goodbye and prepare for Uranus to move into Taurus. Uranus is conjunct Mercury, which will encourage you to reflect on what Uranus taught you during its 8 years in the personal sign of Aries. That transit was all about using the power of the self to create change and innovation; allowing your energy to stimulate authentic self-expression; and even social/political reform. Use the reflective energy of the Taurus Moon to use what you’ve learned to empower yourself in preparation for upcoming change. Taurus allows for emotional resilience, use it to remind yourself that you got this.

  The Moon is trine Mars, which adds some ambition and drive. However, Mars is squaring Uranus. The square is exact when both planets reach the last degree (29th) of their signs, and while they enter their new signs. This makes the aspect extremely significant and volatile- expect impulsive behavior, rapid change, unpredictable emotional reactions, likelihood of accidents, irritability or aggression, rushed decision-making, impatience, and instability. Think before you act.

  The New Moon is also trine Pluto, creating greater emotional intensity as well as opportunity for new discoveries and transformations. Pluto is still in retrograde, which adds extra depth. You may have to review old lessons in order to see the New Moon’s opportunity for transformation. While you may be subject to intense experiences, these are likely to empower you and brace you for the change Uranus will bring. Pluto is the queen of transformation, with her on your side, you’ll learn how to adapt to Uranus’ unpredictability.

  Alright, so? This New Moon is unique because while Taurus usually works with tradition, we’re using this time to prepare for unexpected changes. It’s time to shake things up and break out of your routine. Set your intentions now, because this New Moon starts off controlled before it spirals into unpredictability. It’s important that you focus on changes that will support and empower you. Even though this lunar cycle won’t always have you feeling in control, your mindset will influence how you handle the upcoming surprises. This can lead to some major breakthroughs if you’re up to it, so buckle up! Allow the energy of Venusian Taurus to remind you of what keeps you feeling comfortable through the winds of change. Good luck!