you can’t save anyone, only they can save themselves, that’s first. secondly, look them in the eye and say in a purposeful tone that you love them and are here for them. thats the best you can do. don’t keep pushing it because you will be met with resistance and ultimately get your feelings hurt. put it out there that you are a safe person who is there for him… you can also lead by example and show him that you are taking care of yourself and that, that is something that is attainable. you can also spiritually have and send healing intentions for him. wishing y’all the best! you’re a good friend 💛